By no means am I a softie when it comes to love and romance. Sure, I’m like a real-life Ted Mosby, but I’m also a realist and hate when films end on a predictable note. Anybody that’s been in a relationship knows they’re not all butterflies and gum drops, and some of my favorite films are the ones that portray all forms of life in honest, realistic ways… no matter how painful they may be.

With that said, eschew the typical romance films for Valentine’s Day and check out some films that skew our expectations of fictional relationships. To put you on the right path, I’ve created a list of 10 unconventional films to watch on Valentine’s Day. Grab some wine, a blanket, your significant other, and prepare yourself for some heartbreaking, cynical takes on love – just as nature intended.